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Ashes To The Deep
Burial
at Sea
Under
Sail
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Frequently
Asked
Questions
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What
is the best way to send cremated remains to
Ashes To the Deep
for scattering at sea?
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Send the cremated remains to Ashes to the Deep
in the triple package in which you received the cremated remains
from the crematory. Use U.S. Postal Service
(your
local post office) by Registered Mail / Return Receipt
Requested, with the Tracking Option. Feel free to
ask your Funeral Director who coordinated the cremation for
assistance. It is usually considered part of his fee.
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To the outside of the package,
securely tape an envelope addressed to Ashes To The Deep that contains each of the following required
documents or items:
1) the
completed Arrangement Form,
2) the
completed Document of Authorization for Scattering of Cremated Remains
At Sea,
3) a copy of the Cremation Certificate provided by the crematory, and
4) your check or money order made out to Ashes To The Deep in the
amount indicated for the option chosen on the Arrangement Form.
5) Obviously, in the current heightened
state of homeland security, the ashes must be triple wrapped in a
tightly sealed, sift-proof container, such as the packaging provided
by the crematory.
6) Mail to:
Ashes To The Deep
E.W. April, Capt.
55 Central Park West / Apt 4-C
New York, NY 10023
7) Alert us by email that a package
is in transit; Include the carrier & Tracking Number (email link at
bottom of page).
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For
some time I
have
my loved one's ashes in my possession. How
do I send them to Ashes To The Deep?
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Rather frequently - despite best
intensions - loved ones have been cremated and their ashes are yet
to be properly set to rest. Urns or boxes with cremated human
remains rest in bookcases and on mantels… almost anywhere.
Ashes To The Deep can
provide a fitting, dignified and inexpensive final disposition for
your loved ones at sea.
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Send the cremated remains to us
in the triple package in which you received the cremated remains
from the crematory or in a box containing the urn within a plastic
bag. Send the package to Ashes to the Deep as
described in the response to the previous question. |
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I was raised
Catholic. Is cremation and burial at sea
allowed by Cannon Law?
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Yes, indeed.
Since 1963, the Vatican has permitted cremation for Catholics.
In 1989 revision of the Code of Canon Law provides for cremation. Currently, many parishes have been accepting celebration the funeral liturgy in
the presence of cremated remains, as follows: vigil, Funeral Mass with
cremated remains,
committal rite. "The cremated remains of a Catholic may be
properly buried at sea in an urn...in which they have been carried to
the place of committal. When the...cremated remains of a body are
buried at sea, the
Committal prayer 406 § 4 in the Order of
Christian Funerals is used." * This Catholic prayer for
burial at sea affirms Catholic belief in
the "resurrection of the dead and the power of God to raise all to
the glory of new life."
*
Committee on the Liturgy,
United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, 3211 4th Street,
N.E., Washington, DC 20017-1194
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participate in
the scattering ceremony?
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Unfortunately, this would
necessitate a charter arrangement, for which our vessels are not fitted, registered,
or insured. Such charter arrangements,
moreover, would negate the economical essence of the unattended service.
For these reasons, our scatterings are "unattended".
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unattended service?
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The Captain, usually with a crew
member, sail the cremated remains to a suitable burial location
that is in accordance with all laws and regulations. There, using
a traditional nautical maneuver called "heaving to,"
whereby way is
nearly stopped" - that is, the jib is shortened and backed to
windward, the mainsheet eased, and helm adjusted to windward so
that the vessel, balanced between wind and tide, rides smoothly in
place with little or no forward motion.
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The
Traditional Burial At Sea Ceremony is performed by either scattering the ashes upon the surface of the sea or
tipping to the ashes to the sea bed in a sealed urn, accompanied by
an appropriate reading. A personalized copy of the requested
ceremony is provided to the family along with the Certificate of Burial at Sea,
and a sea chart indicating the location of the scattering service.
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What is the
difference between a scattering
and a placement?
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Scattering is distribution of the ashes onto the surface of
the sea. The ashes are dispersed in the waters and slowly descend to
the sea bed over a broad area.
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Placement
is the deposition of the ashes in a sealed urn on the sea bed
without dispersal. Over time, the urn disintegrates and leaves the
ashes on the sea bed, eventually to disperse over a limited area. The Catholic church requires placement of ashes
within an urn upon the sea bed. Placement is the more expensive option,
requiring purchase of a biodegradable urn. |
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time and date of scattering
not firm?
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Weather, wind, and tide play major (occasionally
hazardous) roles in sailing. This is why we use the term "weather permitting." In the winter months, when the
harbors are frozen, vessels are laid up on land and overhauled.
Moreover, we plan
our voyages to arrive at the selected burial location on an ebbing tide, as
tradition dictates.
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 | Realistically,
how much can I save by cremation and scattering?
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A modest funeral, with filing of
required documents, transportation, embalming, wood casket, visitation or wake, livery, church expenses or donation,
purchase of a grave with grave opening,
and graveside service can exceed $10,000.
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Direct cremation (without embalming), with filing of required
documents, transportation to the crematory, cremation, and
shipment of ashes, followed by scattering at sea by Ashes To
The Deep can be under $1,200,
of which the actual scattering is the only
one-tenth of the cost. The saving is
awesome!
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The absolutely least expensive option must be
anatomical donation. Most medical schools accept anatomical
donations for biomedical research and the training of Physicians,
Surgeons, Dentists, and other Health Care Professionals. The body
must meet certain criteria to be useful for teaching or research.
If he distance between the place of death and the medical school
is reasonable, there is little or no cost to the family. While
studies may take up to two years, the medical school will
transport, cremate, and return the ashes at their expense. You
will have an option as to final disposition of the ashes: You may
wish the ashes to be returned to your family for burial in a
family plot or for scattering. Obviously, anatomical donation will not appeal to
everyone; but if you are interested in considering the ultimate and most
humanitarian
"Gift of Life," look first to the medical school
closest to your residence. The following link provides an informative example
of the needs and procedures among the several medical schools in the
greater New York City area.
Associated Medical Schools of
New York |
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 | My question is not
answered here. How may I obtain more information?
 | Send your questions to us using the mail, email, or
phone contacts at the bottom of this page. |
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