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Frequently Asked Questions

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What is the best way to send cremated remains to Ashes To the Deep for scattering at sea?

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Send the cremated remains to Ashes to the Deep in the triple package in which you received the cremated remains from the crematory. Use U.S. Postal Service (your local post office) by Registered Mail / Return Receipt Requested, with the Tracking Option. Feel free to ask your Funeral Director who coordinated the cremation for assistance. It is usually considered part of his fee.
 

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To the outside of the package, securely tape an envelope addressed to Ashes To The Deep that contains each of the following required documents or items:
1) the completed Arrangement Form,
2) the completed Document of Authorization for Scattering of Cremated Remains At Sea,  
3) a copy of the Cremation Certificate provided by the crematory, and
4) your check or money order made out to Ashes To The Deep in the amount indicated for the option chosen on the Arrangement Form.
5) Obviously, in the current heightened state of homeland security, the ashes must be triple wrapped in a tightly sealed, sift-proof container, such as the packaging provided by the crematory.
6) Mail to:

Ashes To The Deep
E.W. April, Capt.
55 Central Park West / Apt 4-C
New York, NY 10023

7) Alert us by email that a package is in transit; Include the carrier & Tracking Number (email link at bottom of page).

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For some time I have my loved one's ashes in my possession. How do I send them to Ashes To The Deep?

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Rather frequently - despite best intensions - loved ones have been cremated and their ashes are yet to be properly set to rest. Urns or boxes with cremated human remains rest in bookcases and on mantels… almost anywhere. Ashes To The Deep can provide a fitting, dignified and inexpensive final disposition for your loved ones at sea.
 

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Send the cremated remains to us in the triple package in which you received the cremated remains from the crematory or in a box containing the urn within a plastic bag. Send the package to Ashes to the Deep as described in the response to the previous question.

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I was raised Catholic. Is cremation and burial at sea allowed by Cannon Law?
 
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Yes, indeed. Since 1963, the Vatican has permitted cremation for Catholics. In 1989 revision of the Code of Canon Law provides for cremation. Currently, many parishes have been accepting celebration the funeral liturgy in the presence of cremated remains, as follows: vigil, Funeral Mass with cremated remains, committal rite. "The cremated remains of a Catholic may be properly buried at sea in an urn...in which they have been carried to the place of committal. When the...cremated remains of a body are buried at sea, the Committal prayer 406 § 4 in the Order of Christian Funerals is used." *  This Catholic prayer for burial at sea affirms Catholic belief in the "resurrection of the dead and the power of God to raise all to the glory of new life."

* Committee on the Liturgy, United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, 3211 4th Street, N.E., Washington, DC 20017-1194

bulletMay family and friends participate in the scattering ceremony?
 
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Unfortunately, this would necessitate a charter arrangement, for which our vessels are not fitted, registered, or insured. Such charter arrangements, moreover, would negate the economical essence of the unattended service. For these reasons, our scatterings are "unattended".

bulletExactly what is the unattended service?
 
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The Captain, usually with a crew member, sail the cremated remains to a suitable burial location that is in accordance with all laws and regulations. There, using a traditional nautical maneuver called "heaving to," whereby way is nearly stopped" - that is, the jib is shortened and backed to windward, the mainsheet eased, and helm adjusted to windward so that the vessel, balanced between wind and tide, rides smoothly in place with little or no forward motion. 
 

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The Traditional Burial At Sea Ceremony is performed by either scattering the ashes upon the surface of the sea or tipping to the ashes to the sea bed in a sealed urn, accompanied by an appropriate reading.  A personalized copy of the requested ceremony is provided to the family along with the Certificate of Burial at Sea, and a sea chart indicating the location of the scattering service.

bullet What is the difference between a scattering and a placement?
 
bullet Scattering is distribution of the ashes onto the surface of the sea. The ashes are dispersed in the waters and slowly descend to the sea bed over a broad area. 
 
bullet Placement is the deposition of the ashes in a sealed urn on the sea bed without dispersal. Over time, the urn disintegrates and leaves the ashes on the sea bed, eventually to disperse over a limited area. The Catholic church requires placement of ashes within an urn upon the sea bed. Placement is the more expensive option, requiring purchase of a biodegradable urn.

bulletWhy is the time and date of scattering not firm?
 
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Weather, wind, and tide play major (occasionally hazardous) roles in sailing. This is why we use the term "weather permitting." In the winter months, when the harbors are frozen, vessels are laid up on land and overhauled. Moreover, we plan our voyages to arrive at the selected burial location on an ebbing tide, as tradition dictates.

bulletRealistically, how much can I save by cremation and scattering?
 
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A modest funeral, with filing of required documents, transportation, embalming, wood casket, visitation or wake, livery, church expenses or donation, purchase of a grave with grave opening, and graveside service can exceed $10,000.
 

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Direct cremation (without embalming), with filing of required documents, transportation to the crematory, cremation, and shipment of ashes, followed by scattering at sea by Ashes To The Deep can be under $1,200, of which the actual scattering is the only one-tenth of the cost. The saving is awesome!
 

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The absolutely least expensive option must be anatomical donation. Most medical schools accept anatomical donations for biomedical research and the training of Physicians, Surgeons, Dentists, and other Health Care Professionals. The body must meet certain criteria to be useful for teaching or research. If he distance between the place of death and the medical school is reasonable, there is little or no cost to the family. While studies may take up to two years, the medical school will transport, cremate, and return the ashes at their expense. You will have an option as to final disposition of the ashes: You may wish the ashes to be returned to your family for burial in a family plot or for scattering. Obviously, anatomical donation will not appeal to everyone; but if you are interested in considering the ultimate and most humanitarian "Gift of Life," look first to the medical school closest to your residence. The following link provides an informative example of the needs and procedures among the several medical schools in the greater New York City area.

Associated Medical Schools of New York

bulletMy question is not answered here. How may I obtain more information?
 
bulletSend your questions to us using the mail, email, or phone contacts at the bottom of this page.

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